10 Life Lessons Inspired by our Real Estate Adventures in 2010
10 Life Lessons Inspired by our Real Estate Adventures in 2010
While sitting on a train from Richmond to Philadelphia this past Thanksgiving Holiday, we put together 10 of our most personally inspiring life lessons learned over the past year. We looked back at some of the more highly read Real Estate blogs that we wrote for inspiration. In essence, these blogs have become a journal of sorts for us, chronicling the weird, wacky and in some cases brilliant experiences we've had. In putting this article together for you, we realized that even though we are Realtors® by profession, there are some pretty great real life universal lessons that we learned and we want to share some of them with you.
So here they are. 10 Lessons from Realtor® to Real Life
1) Sabotage is only cool when the Beastie Boys sing it, unless Eminem's got the mic.
We learned that great life lessons can be learned everywhere, even through the edgy, in your face lyrics of pop culture's famed rap artists.
2) Beer not required but it never hurts.
We learned to celebrate those unexpected and even unusual moments when they insert themselves into our daily life. If someone brings cake to the office meeting, call it a party! If there is beer in the boardroom, make a toast! Go with the flow and enjoy.
3) Invisible friends make the best BFF's ever ! One of the great lessons of all time for us is to delegate the work that we need to get done and we've entrusted that to some people who we almost never see! Virtual assistants. Meet one of our invisible friends.
4) Look up! Lift your gaze off the ground, away from your Blackberry, off of the keyboard, or iPad, get out of your head and look up into the eyes of your friends and colleagues. Interact because life is good!
5) Often, "Simple" is the best strategy. When we uncomplicate things it almost always equates to less stress and greater success. This concept can be applied to everything from our work schedule to our junk drawer at home.
6) Honesty is the best policy. This well worn phrase needs no explanation.
7) Take a vacation ! We are pretty sure that it is a Law of Physics (like gravity and entropy) that when you take a vacation, expect your business to grow.
8) Sometimes when you lose you win ! It happens to the best of us when we experience a setback or disappointment that breaks our heart. Then later as time passes we see that the loss was actually a blessing in disguise as something greater was out there for us!
9) Excitement is contagious! Wooo Hooo!
10)"Slow down you move too fast..." (Simon and Garfunkle) Never toss the car keys into your trunk and then close it while your car is parked illegally in front of a fire hydrant at N 12th and Wood Streets thus making your wife take a cab to bail you out of your predicament because you were rushing for no reason at all except out of habit. "Feeling groovy..."
There it is folks. The 10 Lessons we learned this year!!
We look forward to yet another year of life's peculiar and admittedly wise teachings with great excitement. 2010 was certainly interesting for us and we hope that as this year draws to a conclusion for you, that your December Holidays be filled with much health and joy as can possibly be had.
Are you Ready for THE RAW TRUTH, Fishtown?
I received an eye-opening email from a native Fishtown woman. I will call her K. She was delightfully candid about a topic that has been nagging at her. I'd guess that her points are probably eating away at other folks that have lived in Fishtown for many, many years, particularly as they watch their tight-knit community become one of the "hot" Real Estate beds for homeowners to buy and RE investors to invest in. K's comments were real and honest and much appreciated. After reading her email, I realized that what she was writing about was important. Really important and worth discussing.
K's comments were about a genuine concern for the future of her neighborhood and standing up for the integrity and honor of Fishtown. It was awesome and filled with idealism which is a catalyst for change. The biggest of K's concerns were Realtors who are exploiting the recent popularity of Fishtown for their own benefit and that the message that "new people" moving into the neighborhood are hearing are not what is important. New people must also know why Fishtown is great and it is not the Memphis Taproom or Johnny Brenda's or Greens Grow or any new business like that. Fishtown greatness was built on the backs of native Fishtown values.
I read between the lines a little but I think what K was saying is that she thinks Realtors (like us) should take a deeper look at the neighborhood and not just promote the area's new businesses. But to give equal consideration to the beating heart and soul of the neighborhood by discussing long standing landmarks, businesses, and history of the area. K mentioned that "new people" moving into the neighborhood should be made aware of the common values that the Fishtown community shares, such as (but not limited to) clean streets, being a friendly and a courteous neighbor, picking up after pets. Okay, so those things may not be as glamorous and sexy as a cool new bar or cafe, but let's get real...who wants to walk out of the trendy bar to trip over an unkempt sidewalk just to step in a pile of dog poo then be scowled at by a neighbor? Not me, my friends. And certainly not you.
I will guarantee that there are tens of thousands of other Philadelphians in different neighborhoods that are biting their lip about the changes transpiring in their now "trendy" neighborhoods. Change is all too obvious to these long time residents who were there in the neighborhood long before we Realtors said it was the cool place to live. Like K said, "Please be reminded, Fishtown was great before and will remain so..."
I got your message loud and clear, K. As Realtors and bloggers, we should consider talking about what makes a community great. But we don't know it all. So, I hope people will read our blog and share some information that they know and love about their neighborhood.
By the way:
1) In Philadelphia, there is a fine for not picking up after your dog, so beware.
2) Landlords and homeowners: trash day is only 1 day out of the week and there is a hefty fine that you will get for trash left out any other day.
3) There is no fine for not saying hello to your neighbor, but do it anyway. This is the City of Brotherly Love, you know.
Thank you, K, for your letter. I hope you read this in the good spirit in which it was written.

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